What to Wear for Your Photography Session

Trying to plan outfits and coordinate with others for a photography session? You’re not alone, it’s a common challenge that can quickly lead to decision fatigue. My hope is that this post gives you clear, helpful guidance to make the process smoother (and even a little fun!).

Whether you’re planning a solo portrait, a sweet couple's session, a full family gathering, an empowering boudoir shoot, or memorializing the bond with your horse, these foundational tips will apply. If you’ve booked a session with me, these are the same principles I’ll walk you through, with extra pointers tailored to your specific session type.

1. Showcase Your Personality

No matter what type of session you're doing, the most important thing is to wear something that feels like you. Even when coordinating with others, comfort and authenticity should come first. These photos are about capturing who you are, and what you wear plays a big role in that. You can express yourself through textures, layers, colors, patterns, or accessories. The goal is to feel confident, not constrained.

2. Bring Options

If your session includes outfit changes, variety is key. I always recommend bringing three looks:

• Look 1: Casual & Easygoing
  Think of what you'd wear to meet a friend for coffee—simple, relaxed, and effortless.

• Look 2: Personality Piece
  This is where accessories or bolder choices come in. Something fun that feels very you.

• Look 3: Your Favorite
  Save the one you're most excited about for last! This is often the "fancier" option—perfect for that dreamy, glowy light at the end of the session.

3. Be Ready for the In-Between Moments

It’s your session, you can wear whatever you want in the photos! I’ve shot boudoir in the rain and holiday portraits in the middle of summer. I won’t bat an eye if your outfit doesn’t match the weather.

That said, bring extras to stay comfortable between shots. Heels are great, but pack flats for walking. If it’s chilly and you’re not layering up for photos, bring a coat or blanket to stay warm between takes. If it’s hot but you need a sweater look, bring something cooler to throw on when we’re not shooting.

4. Embrace Movement

This one’s especially for the ladies: movement can be your best friend in front of the camera, especially if you’re feeling a bit stiff or unsure. Flowy fabrics photograph beautifully and add a sense of softness and natural energy to your images.

But if you’re the kind of person who loves a fitted, confident look then rock it! Show off what makes you feel empowered. And please send some of that confidence to the rest of us, because it’s magic!

5. Choose Natural Colors & Subtle Patterns

Color plays a big role in how your images turn out. While I love bold hues, here’s what you need to know:

• Neutrals always photograph beautifully: Think whites, blacks, grays, browns, and earthy tones.

• Soft & airy colors: Lavender, blush pink, pale blue, soft yellow.

• Rich & deep tones: Navy, burgundy, emerald green.

These three palettes, neutrals, light and airy, or dark and rich, are the most flattering across the board. I would encourage you to avoid neons and anything overly bright, as they can cast unflattering color reflections on you and those around you.

When it comes to patterns, go for subtle ones that don’t overpower. Soft stripes, small florals, and delicate plaids can add dimension without being loud. The larger the pattern, the more muted the color contrast should be. And if it’s a group session, patterns help add variety and personality. Just stay away from graphic tees or anything with logos or large text.

Pro tip for groups: Avoid putting everyone in the exact same color. Instead, choose a color palette and let each person interpret it in their own way. Mixing tones, patterns, textures, and accessories adds visual interest and helps everyone feel like themselves.

6. Choose Accessories With Intention

Accessories can elevate your look and add meaning to your photos, just make sure they’re intentional. If it’s something special to you such as a family heirloom or a favorite piece of jewelry, even better. But avoid wearing things “just because” these items often get photographed and can become a distraction if they don’t feel authentic.

Ideas include:

• Jewelry

• Hats

• Glasses

• Belts

• Jackets

A quick watch tip: Only wear a watch if your sleeves are loose or rolled up. Tight sleeves pushed up over a watch can look bulky or awkward. Also, skip the smartwatches like Apple Watches or Fitbits, unless we’re doing a branding session, they rarely add to the aesthetic of the photo.

7. When in Doubt, Just Ask!

While I’m not a personal stylist, I am happy to help! If you have questions about what to wear, please reach out. I love collaborating with clients on wardrobe choices. It helps reduce your stress, gets you excited about your session, and gives me an early creative spark for our time together.

Ultimately, the best photos come when you feel good in what you’re wearing. So don’t overthink it. Choose what feels like you, keeps you comfortable, and gets you excited for the day. I’ll help guide you every step of the way. Let’s create some art together!